How to Use Reflexive Verbs in Spanish: When & How to Use Them Correctly!

Written by Guadalupe Pérez

July 16, 2025

Do you ever wonder how to use reflexive verbs in Spanish when hearing phrases like Me levanto a las siete or Te llamas María? Reflexive verbs can seem confusing at first, but with a little practice, you’ll be using them confidently in your daily conversations. Today, we’ll break down exactly how reflexive verbs work, when to use them, and how they compare to regular verbs in English.

What Are Reflexive Verbs in Spanish?

At their core:

Reflexive verbs show that the subject and object of the sentence are the same person.

In plain English:
You’re doing something to yourself!

Formula: Reflexive pronoun + conjugated verb
Example: Me baño → I bathe myself.
Example: Te despiertas temprano → You wake yourself up early.

How Are Reflexive Verbs Different from Regular Verbs?

In English, we usually don’t say “I shower myself,” but in Spanish:

  • Ducharse → to shower (yourself)
  • Yo me ducho → I shower. (Lit. “I shower myself.”)

Without the reflexive pronoun, the meaning can change completely!
For example:

  • Levantar = to lift (something else)
  • Levantarse = to get up (yourself)

Common Learner Mistake:
Saying Despierto temprano instead of Me despierto temprano.

The reflexive pronoun is essential!

Reflexive Pronouns Chart

SubjectReflexive Pronoun
Yome
te
Él/Ella/Ustedse
Nosotros/asnos
Vosotros/asos
Ellos/Ellas/Ustedesse

Quick Speaking Challenge

Say a sentence using me, te, or se with a reflexive verb!

Example: Me levanto a las siete.

Try making your own now!

Common Reflexive Verbs in Spanish

Here are some everyday reflexive verbs you’ll use all the time:

  • Levantarse — to get up
  • Ducharse — to shower
  • Despertarse — to wake up
  • Acostarse — to go to bed
  • Peinarse — to comb one’s hair
  • Maquillarse — to put on makeup
  • Afeitarse — to shave
  • Vestirse — to get dressed
  • Llamarse — to call oneself (used for names!)

Real-Life Examples from Travel, Work, and Relationships

Daily Routine:

  • Me ducho por la mañana. — I shower in the morning.
  • Nos acostamos tarde los fines de semana. — We go to bed late on weekends.

Travel Context:

  • Me preparo para el vuelo. — I get ready for the flight.
  • Nos relajamos en la playa. — We relax on the beach.

Relationships & Social Life:

  • Me maquillo antes de la fiesta. — I put on makeup before the party.
  • Te llamas Juan, ¿verdad? — Your name is Juan, right?

Cultural Insight

In Spain, people often say Me voy a la cama instead of Me acuesto.

Both mean “I’m going to bed,” but irse emphasizes physically going somewhere (to bed).

In Latin America, both are commonly used, but acostarse might sound slightly more formal in casual conversations.

Quick Practice Challenge

Translate this sentence:
“I wake up at 7 AM every day.”

Me despierto a las siete todos los días.

Conjugation Charts for Reflexive Verbs

Let’s look at levantarse as an example in different tenses:

Present Tense
SubjectLevantarseExample
Yome levantoI get up
te levantasYou get up
Él/Ella/Ustedse levantaHe/she/you (formal) gets up
Nosotros/asnos levantamosWe get up
Vosotros/asos levantáisYou all get up
Ellos/Ellas/Ustedesse levantanThey/you all get up
Preterite (Simple Past)
SubjectLevantarseExample
Yome levantéI got up
te levantasteYou got up
Él/Ella/Ustedse levantóHe/she/you got up
Nosotros/asnos levantamosWe got up
Vosotros/asos levantasteisYou all got up
Ellos/Ellas/Ustedesse levantaronThey got up
Imperfect (Habitual Past)
SubjectLevantarseExample
Yome levantabaI used to get up
te levantabasYou used to get up
Él/Ella/Ustedse levantabaHe/she/you used to get up
Nosotros/asnos levantábamosWe used to get up
Vosotros/asos levantabaisYou all used to get up
Ellos/Ellas/Ustedesse levantabanThey used to get up
Future Tense
SubjectLevantarseExample
Yome levantaréI will get up
te levantarásYou will get up
Él/Ella/Ustedse levantaráHe/she/you will get up
Nosotros/asnos levantaremosWe will get up
Vosotros/asos levantaréisYou all will get up
Ellos/Ellas/Ustedesse levantaránThey will get up
Common Mistakes & How to Fix Them
MistakeWhy It’s WrongCorrect Version
Despierto a las seis.Missing reflexive pronounMe despierto a las seis.
Me llamo es Juan.Unnecessary esMe llamo Juan.
Te peinas tu pelo.Redundant objectTe peinas.

Pronunciation Tips & Speaking Rhythm

Reflexive pronouns are attached closely to the verb. They form a single, natural unit:

  • Me levanto → [meh leh-VAHN-toh]
  • Nos acostamos → [nohs ah-kohs-TAH-mohs]

When using infinitives or gerunds:

  • Voy a levantarme. — I’m going to get up.
  • Estoy duchándome. — I’m showering.

In these cases, stress stays clear and the reflexive pronoun gets tacked on at the end.

Practice Exercises

Fill in the Blanks:

  1. Yo ___ ducho por la noche.
  2. Nosotros ___ levantamos temprano.
  3. Ella ___ llama Sofía.

Answers:

  1. me
  2. nos
  3. se

Translation Practice:

  1. We go to bed at midnight.
  2. He gets up at 6 AM.
  3. Are you (informal) showering now?

Answers:

  1. Nos acostamos a la medianoche.
  2. Él se levanta a las seis.
  3. ¿Te estás duchando ahora?

Sentence Creation:

Write three sentences about your daily routine using reflexive verbs!

Ready to Keep Learning?

Now you know how to use reflexive verbs in Spanish like a pro! 🎉

Did you like this and want to learn more interesting topics? Don’t miss the previous blogs and learn about topics like: “Tener que vs Deber vs Hay que in Spanish: Must, Should, or Have To?”

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